Marriage and Divorce in the Ethiopian-Israeli Community: Customs, Rabbinate and What To Do

Traditional Marriage Customs

In traditional Beta Israel, marriage is a covenant between two families. Key customs: Shimagile (elder negotiations over dowry), a week of celebrations, Kes blessing with Ge'ez prayers.

Rabbinate Recognition

Marriages conducted in Ethiopia before aliyah require a Judaism verification process through the Chief Rabbinate — taking 1-3 years. Assistance from Yad Le'achim (02-5374111) and ITIM (itim.org.il).

Divorce

Divorce rate in the Ethiopian-Israeli community: ~35% (vs. 22% national average). Causes include generational tensions, shifting expectations, financial stress.

Get (Jewish divorce) must pass through the Rabbinical Court. Women whose husbands refuse a get become "agunot" (chained women) — a serious community problem.

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